BUT, I do still relish a birthday. I love the birthday of any person I love, and I love my own birthday too. Like bridal and baby showers, they have at times made me feel guilty or sheepish or like I'm on attention overload, but now they are a hoot and a holler. I'm sure this is to do with being a mom and not having days off -- it's nice to have a day of "I'm the birthday girl. That's right -- ME."
As it was, though, this year there was not a babysitter available in a 15 mile radius, and all my close friends were out of town, so I just dragged the boys along to do what I wanted to do and did not feel guilty a snitch. And now I can't even remember all the details. I do remember it started off with a favorite. Now it's officially a tradition that Jeff whisks us all away and we go get breakfast at a local Panera-type place. I get the vegetarian breakfast burrito.
Then Jeff went to work and I think my little boys and I went to the mall to cash in on some bday goods....and I just ran indulgent errands and went to Sonic and the park (which was for me in a way to keep Jude happy because a happy Jude means a happy me). All day long people were texting me and asking what Jeff and I were doing that night. I would always answer, "I don't know, but I hope it involves See's Bridge Mix and if it doesn't I'm going to go buy my own." Well my darling husband waltzed in the door after work with a rectangular package in black and white checked wrapping and I knew he loved me and knows me like the back of his hand. He asked if I wanted to go out to dinner with kids or stay in and get take out. Hmmm -- after 0.1116 seconds of careful consideration I chose to skip the restaurant meltdowns and he went pick up Thai food. We watched The Bourne Legacy on Apple TV and ate more than half the bridge mix.
And, as always, I milk my birthday some more with an Eaton celebration at my parents' house a few days later, and then a week after my bday when all my friends were free and/or back in town, we went to Nordstrom Cafe for one last hurrah.
This year I felt the love. I wasn't pregnant and grumpy. I have 3 wonderful boys that put an extra spring in my step. I have a lot to be thankful for in life, and here's to another year of it!
|Me and my besties at Nordstrom Cafe.|